so i'm 21 and i've known i was bisexual since the 6th grade when i had my first girlfriend. i came out to everybody. my friends and my family. nobody was surprised to say the least. i told my mom like it was nothing. but i was afraid to tell my dad. i don't know why though now that i think of it. he said that he'd known since i was about 3 feet tall. i considered myself a lesbian for about a year in high school before i met my boyfriend and soon to be husband who is now my ex-husband (what a mouthful!).

i've never had a problem telling somebody and nobody has ever given me a problem because of it. but now i'm 21. i've been to a couple gay bars. i have a ton of gay friends. they tell me there is no such thing as bi. just confused. a girl at work was having a conversation with somebody about her sister (a lesbian) and some of her friends that are bisexual. they were saying how bisexual people were just "nasty". i've never had sex with a woman before and because of that people have told me that im not really bisexual.

so i'm wondering... i don't really know what i'm wondering. i don't know that many bisexual people, actually i don't think i know any... they're either straight or gay. so i'd like to hear coming out stories or any advice.

oh! and i'm new to the tribe so hi! :)