I have a straight friend who is interested in setting up sacred tribal intimacy groups, much along the line of what I am trying to do with gay men, but he wishes to do this with women and men. It has been very easy for me to find men who are hungering to explore the interface of the spiritual and the sexual and have no difficulties getting naked and touching. My question is: "What do women need to feel that they could enter into an exploratory, sensual space with other women and men? It seems to be the terrain is entirely different for women. It may not be something that interests them at all.