When it comes to placing myself into a group "bisexual" or whatever name I just can't do it. I guess it's my fear of labels. When I look at males or females I first notice both sexes equally face it! Hot is Hot. Than once they open their mouths it either makes me want to know more or run for the hills. When it comes right down to it if I can't make the mental connection there is nothing. So since the body parts don't matter to me at all I am 50/50 but since it's a connection mentally that does it I must be a "human." If I can't speak intelligently with a person I can't even relate sexually with them. .

It seems to me that by placing labels on ourselves it segregates us. Labels like gay/bi/queer/lesbian etc… take away from the whole experience of being human. So I always reply human when asked. It really confuses people and breaks down barriers and stereotypes for me.